If we avoid conflict with our neighbor because we do not
think they can handle it, then we are victims of arrogance.
If we avoid conflict with our neighbor because we do not
like conflict, then we are victims of immaturity.
If we avoid conflict with our neighbors because we are
unsure of what the conflict might bring, then we are victims of fear.
If we avoid conflict with our neighbors because we do not
think it is worth it, then we are delaying a future conflict.